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		<title>Others&#8217; Thoughts From the Blogosphere.</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Yesterday Scott Berkun wrote a very interesting blog post on How to call bullshit on a guru; equally interesting was the reader discussion which followed.   My favorites:   &#8220;Do you know how to innovate?  How?&#8221; “How interested is this guy in understanding my problem(s)?”. If they’re not, then they’re a hammer looking for nails, or you [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yesterday <a title="Scott Berkun | Making Things Happen" href="http://www.scottberkun.com/" target="_blank">Scott Berkun</a> wrote a very interesting blog post on <a title="Scott Berkun | How to call bullshit on a guru" rel="bookmark" href="http://www.scottberkun.com/blog/2009/how-to-call-bullshit-on-a-guru/" target="_blank">How to call bullshit on a guru</a>; equally interesting was the reader discussion which followed.  </p>
<p>My favorites:  </p>
<p>&#8220;Do you know how to innovate?  How?&#8221;</p>
<p>“How interested is this guy in understanding my problem(s)?”. If they’re not, then they’re a hammer looking for nails, or you should just buy their book or read their blog or such. </p>
<p>Do they ever answer a question with “I don’t know, I’ll have to think about that someone more.&#8221;  If they have an answer for everything then either the questions or the answers aren’t that great.&#8221;</p>
<p>I also highly recommend reading his essay &#8220;<a title="The kind of mistakes you make define you." href="#44 - How to learn from your mistakes" target="_blank">How to Learn From Your Mistakes</a>.&#8221;  I have a print out of it on my desk; as he notes, &#8220;The kind of mistakes you make define you.&#8221;</p>
<p>A few highlights from his essay:</p>
<h3>The learning from mistakes checklist</h3>
<ul>
<li>Accepting responsibility makes learning possible.</li>
<li>Don’t equate making mistakes with being a mistake.</li>
<li>You can’t change mistakes, but you can choose how to respond to them.</li>
<li>Growth starts when you can see room for improvement.</li>
<li>Work to understand why it happened and what the factors were.</li>
<li>What information could have avoided the mistake?</li>
<li>What small mistakes, in sequence, contributed to the bigger mistake?</li>
<li>Are there alternatives you should have considered but did not?</li>
<li>What kinds of changes are required to avoid making this mistake again?What kinds of change are difficult for you?</li>
<li>How do you think your behavior should/would change in you were in a similar situation again?</li>
<li>Work to understand the mistake until you can make fun of it (or not want to kill others that make fun).</li>
<li>Don’t over-compensate: the next situation won’t be the same as the last.</li>
</ul>
<p>But &#8211; don&#8217;t rely on this cliff notes version; read his whole post; you&#8217;ll improve your personal lessons learned process,  and perhaps improve the quality of your professional projects, too.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>&#8220;Success does not consist in never making mistakes, but in never making them a second time.</strong>&#8221;    &#8211;   George Bernard Shaw</p>
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